More Than a Date on a Calendar: Why August 10 Matters

Every calendar holds dates that mark important moments in history. But some dates represent more than history – they represent lives forever changed. August 10 is one of those dates.

Some battles didn’t end when the war did.

To many, August 10 is just another summer day, but for thousands of Vietnam veterans and their families, it is a reminder that the effects of war can last a lifetime. It is a day to remember those whose lives were forever changed by Agent Orange, to honor those we have lost, and to recognize the families who continue to walk this journey alongside them.

August 10 is recognized nationally as Agent Orange Awareness Day because it marks the anniversary of the first use of Agent Orange in Vietnam on August 10, 1961. More than six decades later, many Vietnam veterans and their families continue to live with the lifelong effects of toxic exposure.

As Rutherford County prepares to welcome The Wall That Heals this November, the Rutherford County Agent Orange Remembrance & Awareness Committee invites our community to join them in shining a light on the lasting impact of Agent Orange.

Together, we remember. We educate. We honor.

Because no veteran, and no family, should ever have to walk this journey alone.

 

America 250: Honoring Our Past. Celebrating Our Future.

As America celebrates 250 years of independence, may we pause to honor our past, celebrate the freedoms we enjoy – and all too often take for granted, and look with hope toward the future – and may we do so with grateful hearts.

On July 4th, 2026, our community gathered to dedicate the Overmountain Men Memorial Statue, honoring the brave patriots who answered the call during the Revolutionary War. The Overmountain Men left the safety of their homes, crossed the rugged mountains, and passed through these foothills, crossing Alexander’s Ford before riding on to Kings Mountain, convinced that liberty was worth every sacrifice. Their victory became a turning point in America’s fight for independence and helped shape the nation we proudly call home today.

The Overmountain Men blazed the trail to secure our freedom. Every generation since has answered the call to preserve it. That same spirit has echoed through every generation of Americans.

They came from different backgrounds, different churches, different political beliefs, and different walks of life. Yet they stood side by side, united, not because they were the same, but because they believed that freedom was worth defending together. They understood that what united them was far greater than anything that could divide them.

Before there was victory at Kings Mountain, there was Rutherford County
Before there was victory in Kings Mountain, there was Rutherford County. May we remember that some of the first steps toward liberty were taken right here in the foothills we call home. https://conservingcarolina.org/alexanders-ford-hike-in-bradley-nature-preserve/

From the victory at Kings Mountain that helped secure our independence during the Revolutionary War to Belleau Wood, to the beaches of Normandy, to the frozen hills of Korea, to the jungles of Vietnam, and to the deserts and mountains of the Global War on Terror, generations of ordinary Americans have answered the extraordinary call to serve.

Today, as we gather with family and friends, enjoy fireworks, and celebrate the blessings of living in this great nation, may we never forget why those traditions exist. They are possible because someone, somewhere, chose sacrifice over self.

This November, that same spirit of service and sacrifice will be reflected once again as The Wall That Heals comes to Rutherford County. The 58,281 names engraved on the memorial remind us that freedom has always carried a cost. Every name represents a life. A family. A story. Together, they remind us that the blessings we celebrate today, and the freedoms we cherish were entrusted to us by generations who answered the call to serve.

As we celebrate America 250, may we count our blessings with grateful hearts. May we honor those who blazed the trail before us, remember those who carried freedom forward through every generation, and leave a legacy of faith, gratitude, unity, and service for the generations yet to come.

Happy 250th Birthday, America.

God bless our veterans. God bless those who continue to serve. And may God continue to bless the United States of America.

Lisa Marie Barrett, Director, Military Ministry Father’s Vineyard

Remembering the Why Behind Memorial Day

Memorial Day is more than a long weekend or the unofficial start of summer. It is a day set aside to remember the more than 1.1 million brave men and women who gave their lives in service to this country so that we could live free – enjoying the many freedoms we hold dear and too often take for granted.

This year, Memorial Day feels especially personal.

Over the past year, I have had the privilege of working alongside the Vietnam Veterans Memorial Fund (VVMF) and an incredible committee committed to bringing The Wall That Heals to Rutherford County during Veterans Week 2026.

This November, the soccer fields at Isothermal Community College will be transformed into sacred ground – a place of remembrance, reflection, healing, and education for our entire community.

The Wall That Heals is a three-quarter scale traveling replica of the Vietnam Veterans Memorial in Washington, D.C., bringing the impact and emotion of The Wall to communities across America.

Spindale, North Carolina was honored to be selected as one of only 31 host communities nationwide this year and the only stop in North Carolina. We also have the distinct honor of closing out VVMF’s national tour.

And right here in Rutherford County, we have 10 Hometown Heroes — The Rutherford 10 — whose names are forever memorialized on the Vietnam Veterans Memorial, a lasting reminder that freedom has always come at a cost.

They were part of this community, and they gave everything so that we could live free.

The Wall That Heals is more than a memorial — it also brings healing.  The Mobile Education Center and the In Memory Program, help ensure the brave men and women who served in Vietnam are never forgotten while helping future generations better understand the human cost of war.

As part of this experience, we will also offer guided educational tours for students, churches, and civic organizations, helping connect our community and future generations to the stories behind the 58,281 names forever memorialized on The Wall — reminding us that freedom is never free.

The Mobile Education Center helps tell the stories behind the names so future generations can understand that freedom is never free. One of those names belongs to Dan Bullock, the youngest service member on The Wall. He enlisted at just 14 years of age — killed in action in Vietnam on June 7th, 1969 — only 15 years old when he gave his life for his country.

Stories like his remind us that the names etched on The Wall are far more than names in granite. They were lives interrupted — birthdays never celebrated — dreams unfinished — futures forever changed.

They were sons and daughters, brothers and sisters, classmates, teammates, neighbors, and friends — ordinary people who once laughed, loved, dreamed and believed they still had a lifetime ahead of them. Young men and women with hopes, plans, and people waiting for them to come home.

That is why The Wall That Heals is so much more than a memorial. It is also about healing, education, and remembrance. While The Wall That Heals honors those who never made it home, the In Memory Program exists to honor Vietnam veterans who served in Vietnam, came home and later passed away.

Since the Vietnam War, nearly two million Vietnam veterans have passed away, yet only about 9,000 have been formally recognized through the In Memory Program. It is so important that we continue sharing this opportunity with families and friends so we can recognize and remember those who served, came home, and are no longer with us.

Bringing something this meaningful to our community takes all of us. It takes volunteers, supporters, and people willing to stand together and say…

These lives mattered.

These stories will live on.

When The Wall That Heals comes to Rutherford County November 12–15, 2026, come Volunteer. Stand before it. Find a name. Read a story. Remember a face.

Allow yourself to feel the weight, the sacrifice, and the humanity behind those 58,281 names.

Because every life mattered.
Every name tells a story.
And every story deserves to be remembered.

May we never forget.

For more information click here.

Lisa Marie Barrett, Military Ministry Director

The Wall That Heals: Bringing Healing Home to Rutherford County

The Wall That Heals Rutherford County, NC Committee, in partnership with our official host site, Isothermal Community College (ICC), and in collaboration with the Vietnam Veterans Memorial Fund, (VVMF) – the organization that founded the Vietnam Veterans Memorial in 1982, will bring something sacred  to Rutherford County—The Wall That Heals, the official three-quarter scale replica of the Vietnam Veterans Memorial commonly referred to as, The Wall, in Washington, D.C.

Accompanying the replica is the Mobile Education Unit, an interactive exhibit that connects the names on The Wall to the lives behind them – sharing personal stories, historical context, and the lasting impact of the Vietnam War on those who served and their families.

Watch 30-second video overview, click here.

The exhibit will be open 24 hours a day, beginning at 2:00 p.m. on Wednesday, November 11, closing at 2:00 p.m. on Sunday, November 15, offering continuous opportunity for reflection, remembrance, and healing.

As part of this powerful experience, our community will have the honor of hearing from a voice that reflects the lasting impact of The Wall That Heals, Cindy Stonebraker Reed, President/Founding Director of Mission POW-MIA.

Cindy’s connection to The Wall is deeply personal. Her father, Lt. Col. Kenneth A. Stonebraker’s aircraft was shot down near the Laotian border near Quang Binh Province, Vietnam on 10/28/1968. Cindy had just turned 6 when her father went missing. For Cindy, The Wall is the closest place she can go to visit her father, who is one of the 1,566 still unaccounted for from the Vietnam War.

Today, she carries that loss into purpose – traveling the country to ensure that those still missing, and the families who still wait, are never forgotten.

For many in our community, traveling hundreds of miles to Washington, D.C. is simply not possible. Bringing The Wall home ensures that every veteran, every family member, and every member of our community has the opportunity to stand before the names, make a connection, and experience this powerful tribute right here at home.

And for loved ones like Cindy, it becomes something even more profound – a place to visit, a place to remember, and the closest place she has to her father.

This is more than a memorial – it is a moment to remember, honor, and heal.

As we prepare to welcome The Wall That Heals, we are especially committed to sharing the mission of VVMF’s In Memory program, which honors Vietnam veterans who returned from the war, then later passed away. Since the war, nearly 1.8 million Vietnam veterans have passed, yet less than 8,000 have been formally recognized through this national program.

Bringing The Wall That Heals to Rutherford County allows us to help change that.

We invite families and friends to ensure their loved one’s service is recognized, not only during the time The Wall is here, but through a lasting online remembrance that can be visited from anywhere across the country for generations to come.

Because every name matters. Every story deserves to be remembered, and every veteran deserves to be honored.

This is how we bring healing home. This is how we say the words that should have been said decades ago, Welcome Home.

Why It Matters: The Wall That Heals allows our community to:

    • Honor the 58,281 brave service members who served with courage, but never returned home
    • Remember Rutherford County’s 10 Hometown Heroes whose names are etched in its panels
    • Share the stories behind the name through the Mobile Education Unit
    • Teach future generations about service, sacrifice, and the cost of freedom
    • Provide a sacred place for veterans and family members to reflect, remember and begin healing
    • Extend a long-overdue “Welcome Home

The mission of The Wall That Heals Rutherford County, NC Committee is clear and deeply rooted in purpose: to honor our veterans with the dignity they deserve, to preserve and carry their legacies forward for future generation, and to provide a sacred place where healing can begin.

Moments Our Community Will Never Forget

    • When the escort arrives November 10 at approximately 1:00 p.m.
    • When a veteran finds the name of a fallen brother or sister on The Wall
    • When a loved one reaches out and touches a name
    • When, perhaps for the first time, someone whispers “Welcome Home”

The Wall That Heals Spindale, NC 2026

Click here to watch an overview: The Wall That Heals Visitor Experience

To make an online donation, click here or mail a check payable to Veterans Foundation of NC, to the following address:

The Wall That Heals Spindale, NC, PO Box 73, Spindale, NC 28160 or contact 828-351-4955.

Lisa Marie Barrett, Director and Co-Chair

 

Veterans Day 2025

Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends John 15:13. That’s the love our veterans have shown and it’s that love that brings us together today as we honor them.

Veterans Day began as Armistice Day, marking the end of World War I on November 11th, 1918 — the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month. Over time, it has become a day to honor all veterans — from every branch, every generation, and every conflict — those who stood watch, who deployed far from home, and who carried the weight of our freedom on their shoulders.

To me, Veterans Day is not just a date on the calendar — it is a promise. A promise to never forget the cost of freedom and to honor the men and women who make that freedom possible. It’s a day to reflect, to remember, and to carry forward their legacies with the same courage and devotion they showed us. It’s a day of gratitude, honoring those who gave up comfort, safety, and for too many, their tomorrows so that we could have ours — and reminding us to live each day worthy of their service, their sacrifice.

As someone who has the privilege of serving our veterans through community programs and remembrance efforts, I carry their stories close to my heart. Everything I do — whether advocating for veterans’ benefits, serving as a Guardian and Veteran Recruiter with Blue Ridge Honor Flight or helping bring The Wall That Heals to communities, is because of what they have done and continue to do for us.

Through my work with veteran organizations, I’ve seen the strength the unites every branch of service. The commitment that carried them through battlefields and deployments now drives them to serve again – in our classrooms, our churches, our communities.

They share an unbreakable bond – a steadfast faithfulness to one another and to the ideals they swore to defend. Their courage may have started in a uniform, but their service never ends.

Veterans, Words will never be enough to express the gratitude I hold in my heart for each and every one of you. You have given us the gifts of freedom, safety, and hope — gifts that can never truly be repaid.

On Veterans Day, we honor you.

Today and always, we honor you.

May we always live our lives worthy of your service, your sacrifice.

May we, as a community and a nation, never forget the cost of freedom, nor the hearts that bore it with courage.  May we be a nation that remembers those who serve and a community that always honors those who gave us this day.

Thank you for your service.

Lisa Marie Barrett, Military Ministry Director

Celebrating 20 years of Honoring Our Heroes: Blue Ridge Honor Flight

For over 20 years, Blue Ridge Honor Flight has proudly served those who served us – flying our National Treasures, our veterans, to Washington, D.C. to visit the memorials built in their honor.

It is an incredible honor and privilege to be an active Guardian and Veteran Recruiter for this amazing non-profit organization. Each flight is deeply meaningful, and every veteran I meet leaves an indelible print upon my heart. The stories, the laughter, the smiles, the tears, the camaraderie, and the quiet moments of reflection remind me of why these missions matter so much.

Each journey is a powerful day of reflection, remembrance, and gratitude, surrounded by fellow veterans and volunteers who deeply care.

 

It would be a true honor to have you join us on this unforgettable journey to witness firsthand the gratitude and healing that unfold with every flight. Our next flight will be April 18th, 2026.  Whether you’ve served, love someone who has or simply want to give back by volunteering as a Guardian, or helping welcome our heroes home, there’s a place for you with Blue Ridge Honor Flight.  See below to apply or reach out to me.

Veteran Application

Guardian Application

Gold Star Family Application

Volunteer

Honor Flight Video

Lisa Marie Barrett, FV Military Director,                                                                                  Blue Ridge Honor Flight Guardian and Veteran Recruiter

 

Supporting Those Who Served: The Veteran’s Farm of North Carolina

At Father’s Vineyard, we believe in restoring hope and purpose, especially for the men and women who have served our Nation. The Veteran’s Farm of North Carolina (VFNC) also believes in restoring hope. VFNC is dedicated to helping veterans transition from military life into civilian life by helping them reconnect, rebuild, and renew their sense of purpose through hands on agricultural therapy, skill building and community.

Located in the heart of North Carolina, this working farm offers more than crops and livestock, it provides a pathway to peace and productivity. Veterans can find camaraderie, counseling and meaningful work in a safe, supportive environment designed to nurture both the soil and the soul.

If you are a veteran in need of encouragement, healing or a fresh start, I encourage you to connect with VFNC. To refer a veteran or become a part of giving veterans a new mission and America a new farmer, please email info@vfnc.org or click here to learn more.

Lisa Marie Barrett, FV Military Ministry Director

Remembering 9/11

September 11th reminds us of the brokenness of this world, but also of God’s presence in our darkest days.

We remember the lives lost, the heroes who rose up, and the faith that carried us through.

For decorated Marine veteran Michael Barrett, September 11th is not just a moment in history—it is a call that shaped his life of service. Awarded the Purple Heart and recognized for his extraordinary bravery, like his father, Sgt Major Don Barrett, Michael’s journey is one of resilience, courage, and unshakable determination.

On this solemn 24th anniversary of 9/11, Michael reflects in his own words:

Every September, when the anniversary of 9/11 approaches, I find myself remembering not only where I was on that day but what it came to mean for my life and for our nation. The images of firefighters, police officers, paramedics, and everyday Americans running toward danger while others fled will never leave me. Their heroism in those moments set the standard for what it means to serve something greater than yourself.

For me, service has always been at the core of who I am. I earned the title of United States Marine at Parris Island in 1993, and for more than 20 years I had the honor of wearing the uniform. My journey took me from standing watch as a young Military Police patrolman, to shaping recruits as a Drill Instructor, to leading Marines in combat, and later to caring for wounded warriors and their families.

In 2004, during my first deployment to Iraq, I was severely wounded by an Improvised Explosive Device in the Al Anbar Province. That single moment changed everything. What followed was 533 days of recovery—surgery after surgery, endless rehab sessions, and moments where I was forced to confront the very real possibility that my career as a Marine was over.

 

But giving up was never an option. My determination to return to my Marines carried me through the darkest days of recovery. In time, I was able to reenlist and return to Iraq for a second combat deployment. That return wasn’t just about finishing what I started—it was proof to myself, and to others, that resilience can overcome even the deepest scars of war.

The greatest lessons I learned in uniform weren’t about tactics or strategy. They were about resilience, about never leaving a fellow Marine behind, and about the unbreakable strength of brotherhood and community. Those lessons have guided me in every chapter of my life, from leading Marines on the battlefield to serving veterans and their families in my civilian career.

On this 24th anniversary of 9/11, I think of the lives lost, the families forever changed, and the heroes who ran toward the flames. I also think of the countless Americans who chose service—whether in the military, as first responders, or in their communities—inspired by that day.

For me, 9/11 is not only a day of remembrance, but a reminder of why I continue to serve, in and out of uniform. It is a reminder that resilience is possible, even in the face of tragedy. And it is a call for all of us to live with purpose, courage, and compassion.  I respectfully challenge you to recommit yourselves to that same resilience. Whether in uniform or in your communities, each of us has the capacity to serve, to lead, and to strengthen the bonds that unite us as Americans.

The legacy of 9/11’s heroes endures in every act of selfless service. My own journey as a combat-wounded Marine is but one reflection of that spirit. On this solemn anniversary, may we honor their sacrifice not just with remembrance, but with action—by lifting others up, serving with purpose, and never forgetting the strength that comes from unity.

Semper Fidelis.

Michael Barrett USMC Ret.

 

Patriot Day Ceremony 2025

The Forest City Fire Department will host its annual Patriot Day Ceremony on Thursday, September 11th at Pavilion on Park Square (POPS). This solemn event honors the lives lost on September 11th, 2001 and recognizes the courage of first responders, service members, and everyday heroes who continue to protect our communities and our Nation.

This year’s guest speaker will be Sergeant Kris Benson. Benson, a decorated Marine and native of Ohio, answered the call to serve following the terrorist attacks of 9/11. He was an honor graduate from the School of Infantry at Camp Pendleton, CA. He served with distinction and was assigned to Weapons Company, 3rd Battalion, 7th Marines, 1st Marine Division, serving two tours in Iraq. His courage and sacrifice were recognized with The Purple Heart, and he was awarded The Medal of Valor for extraordinary bravery in combat.

His story of resilience and dedication reflects the very spirit of service and sacrifice that Patriot Day represents. The community is invited to attend this moving tribute as we gather to remember, reflect, and renew our commitment to NEVER FORGET.

As inscribed at the Korean War Veterans Memorial in Washington, D.C.,

These words remind us that the liberties we cherish have been secured through the sacrifice of others. On Patriot Day, we honor those sacrifices and recommit ourselves to living in a way that keeps their legacy alive.

Lisa Marie Barrett, Director

 

PTSD Awareness Month 2025

The purpose of this blog is to help raise awareness about something we don’t always see, PTSD, also known as Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder.

I’m not a doctor or a therapist — just someone who deeply cares about those who’ve worn our country’s uniform and the challenges many face long after they return home.

photo from militaryconnection.com

Many of you have probably heard the term PTSD, but I’m going to side with former Force Recon Marine, DOD Contractor and founder of Mighty Oaks Foundation, Chad Robichaux, who says the D for disorder should be a lowercase “d” or left out altogether. Robichaux does not view PTS as a disorder, rather a natural response to extreme trauma. I agree.

PTS is a mental health condition, not a character flaw. For those of you who are not familiar with Mighty Oaks Foundation, it is a resiliency program to help veterans, active-duty service members and first responders overcome trauma and find healing through faith-based programs. They have one of the highest success rates among veteran recovery programs and have zero reported suicides.

While trauma is not exclusive to the battlefield, The War on Terror has brought PTS “d” into the national spotlight in the recent decades. Countless veterans return home with invisible wounds, the wounds we cannot see, wounds that don’t show up on X-rays or MRIs, but are just as real.

For many veterans, that trauma comes from combat — but it isn’t limited to the battlefield. It also affects first responders, survivors of abuse, accidents, and natural disasters. It can include flashbacks, nightmares, emotional numbness, and hyper-awareness. PTS is NOT a sign of weakness – it is a sign of survival.

On Memorial Day, we honor those who made the ultimate sacrifice and never returned home, but as we remember the fallen, let’s also support the living — the ones still fighting battles in their minds and hearts every single day of their lives — the ones who carry the wounds we cannot see.

Healing begins with awareness, and it continues through community. We can all be part of that healing by showing compassion, listening without judgment, and reminding our veterans — they are not alone.

PTS does not define a person. It’s a part of their story, not the whole story – just a chapter, and healing is possible —especially when a community steps up and says, “We see you. We hear you. We’ve got your six.”

God bless our veterans, our fallen heroes, and the freedoms they fought for.

For a free download of Chad’s book, click here:  The Truth About PTSd

Lisa Marie Barrett, Director

National PTSD Awareness Month banner. Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Annual event in USA in June. Vector illustration.

 Help Raise PTSD Awareness – PTSD: National Center for PTSD